The Beauty Myth – How Do Women Really Feel About Their Looks?


In 1991, Naomi Wolf published The Beauty Myth detailing her understanding of how women continue to be oppressed throughout society for men’s benefit.

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Wolf argued that instigating and using the myth of beauty would be men’s ultimate weapon against women and their perceived rising power.

Women continue to face blockades in the workplace due to the political and systemic use of beauty to define worth. Although men define beauty’s ideology, the demarcation of beauty is not defined, leaving the female confused about her feelings of self.

This allows big corporations to levy unfairly the work that women increase their revenue whilst enriching both female expenditure and manageability. This has, in turn, reduced the female’s self-esteem, a powerful tool for control.

Naomi Wolf wrote this book in 1991, following both the first and second wave of feminists. Are we embarking upon the third wave of feminism? Many skeptics of feminism report that the previously overwhelming injustice towards women and their cries that created and sustained Women’s Rights movements have now been diluted to a mere whimper. Is there any truth to this statement?

I want to use this article to examine what changes have happened since 1991 and how women’s lives may or may not have changed.

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Women have always been necessary to the workplace, even if not respected for their contribution. Latent history informs us that due to the First World War (WW1) in 1914 -18, women were necessary to move out of the home to fulfill the employment gap due to men being at war. When the war ended, women did not naturally want to give up this financial independence level and return to the home. Cross-referencing historical information, the fight for Women’s Rights began much earlier; therefore, women were already aware of the injustices towards them, thereby informing of the reluctance to ‘return to the home.’ In 1848, 68 women and 32 men outlined grievances towards women, including women having the right to vote, and signed a Declaration of Sentiments in New York. In 1872, the national movement began in the UK in the form of the National Society for Women’s Suffrage and later the more influential National Union of Women’s Suffrage Societies. Without this cross-referencing, one would be forgiven for mistaking that up until WW1 in 1914; women were not knowledgeable about their unjust treatment towards them.

The knowledge that women did indeed know that they were being mistreated and that they actually felt strong enough to take action in different forms showed both tenacity and strength, words that were not used to describe women at all. Since 1991, what has changed to strengthen Women’s Rights to be more equal to men?

Not much, in my opinion, from the viewpoint of entry-level top careers for women, although according to recent research carried out by Astbury Marsden, they found that this year has seen an increase of 100% of women in management positions. This equates to 12% overall from 6% overall last year. We should be grateful! What about the significant pay gaps between men and women for equal jobs? According to Dr. Carla Harris from the Workplace Gender Equality Agency (WGEA), the gap is widening; currently, for every dollar a man makes, his female counterpart earns 82 cents. I doubt you will find a noticeable difference in the UK. In fact, upon research, women rated 15% less than men. Is this gap made worse in poor economic times?

So not much has changed regarding respect for females and their contribution to society and society, not much regarding how females are viewed, mostly negatively, and for sexual pleasures. However, what is more startling (perhaps an over-exaggeration) is that although there have always been women ‘night-workers’ (prostitutes), women appear to be engaging in their war against themselves. Let me put this into perspective about this internal war with women. Notwithstanding the ‘glamour’ needed for night workers to attract work, women now use this same concept for their self-esteem. Those women did not care for their looks previously, as their grooming ritual naturally attracts a mate. However, because of the Beauty Myth, the natural birthing process of grooming for a mate has become and confusing, and instills a lack of confidence in a female. The precocious instigation of the Beauty Myth undertaken by men but calculatingly not clearly defined (Naomi Wolf) has left women attempting to attain not just the indescribable but the unattainable as beauty is left open for interpretation by the beholder (men).


What has been the result?

Financial contributions to cosmetics, diet, and surgery have all seen a surge in willing captors seeking this beauty myth and being rather discouraged when they realize that the goalposts keep shifting. Cosmetic companies revel in ascribing their latest product and how wonderfully powerful some ingredient is now contained in their development. Who heard of Pentapeptide, let alone researched what it did before buying the product?

Companies like those in the cosmetic industry rely on women’s poor self-esteem to direct their products. In return, women respond in a dynamic grab for the ‘miracle’ product that will stave off or slow the aging process. Women are made to feel that they are no longer visually pleased, and according to Wolf, companies can remove the female from their workplace in favor of a younger model. Remember Miriam O’Reilly winning her claim against the BBC for what she alleges being dismissed on ageism and victimization grounds? A second-rate victory because she did not win because of sexism. What this tells me is what Wolf already identified in her book, that it is tough for a woman to claim against sex discrimination as the lawfully supports what it calls a BFOQ (bona fide occupational qualification- USA) or the UK’s version of GOQ (genuine occupational qualification- Wolf). This means a company may dismiss a woman if she does not measure up to their ideology of beauty. Remember, this level of beauty is not defined, and what would this say? As beauty is in the eye of the beholder (self).

Miriam O’Reilly’s tribunal was held on the 4-19th November 2010, 19 years after Wolf’s publication; therefore, women are still demonstrably being targeted and treated according to their looks and not what talents they may have in the workplace. So no real progress here, then!

Next time you go shopping, look out for several different beauty products. Be aware of how much time and energy commercials use to sell you their copious amounts of products and the images they use. The use of anti-wrinkle creams on models is probably not even yet 20 years old yet. Why on earth they need anti-wrinkle cream is beyond me. Next, these kinds of adverts will be shown using a 13-year-old!

Now, look at grounded products such as lipsticks. Now you can get ones that last all day. You need another product to remove the lipstick because a normal cleanser and water do not always work. Companies must keep reinventing the wheel to keep their profits up, so their imagination runs riot, and they come up with all sorts of products, all doing the same thing but differently. Women fall for this; look at her makeup bag, products of the same but different thing, hardly used due to the copious amounts.

What about products containing a certain ingredient that will ‘benefit’ perceived ‘bags’ under the eyes? Do you think that buying this product will alleviate ‘baggy eyes’? Why should it? If it did, you must stop buying the product once cured. Companies use only enough to make a slight difference, and you must keep re-buying to secure better results. I imagine companies laughing at women as they stand far at the side of the room, throwing in the magic ingredient (that is, how offensively low the element is regarding weight and productivity). Now, I am not saying that a particular component does not work, for example, caffeine. However, following your lovely cup of tea, you could quite easily reconstitute the tea bag and put this on your eyes. It probably has more caffeine in the teabag than in the expensive product you buy.

Let us look at how other companies have cashed in on the creation of poor self-esteem in women. An ostentatious amount of money is spent by females on diet products hoping that the ‘extra’ pounds they think they are carrying will disappear, leaving the female with a sense of acceptance and perceived beauty. The sugars used in many foods are replaced with a less substitute caloric. To me, this is just a lot of useless chemicals being pumped into the body for no real gain. Processed sugars are not good for anyone in huge amounts, and a wise thing for health purposes would be to reduce your intake, not substitute this with something that requires the body to work harder to break it down, if it can use it at all.

For research purposes, I typed in ‘What effect do artificial sugars have on the body?’ and did not have to look far too clear to see the dangers of artificial sweeteners. According to author Marcelle Pick (Obstetrician and Gynecologist), she speaks openly about being properly informed of sweeteners’ possible side effects. I will not mention the company as I do not wish to give them any exposure, but you can do your research. This particular name brand is the trade name for Sucralose, a synthetic compound stumbled upon in 1976 by scientists in Britain seeking a new pesticide formation. (Marcelle Pick) This company did twist the sugar component of their product by citing the ‘natural sugar’ aspect. Yet more importantly, did you catch the word ‘pesticide?’

Now we go into cosmetic surgery. This phenomenon has increased tenfold since the 1970s. Now you can book a Botox in your lunch hour and be back to work. The lackadaisical procedure should be seen as worrying and not that companies seek to make life easier for women to attain this face-stiffening procedure. Remember the poor actress infamously known for her ‘trout pout?’ I will leave this here to save her blushes! The point I am making is some of these procedures are downright dangerous, yet women are still clambering to risk life or limb.

We do not have to search our brains too hard to recall some other poor soul who underwent breast surgery to enlarge her already natural assets and perceptually ended up looking misplaced. The female body is perfect as it stands, and while some females may have to undergo a surgical procedure on medical grounds, this should not be confused with the female body being nature at its finest.


Women are undergoing all sorts of procedures in an attempt to gain an unattainable body. Bum enhancements, facelifts, eye lifts, neck lifts (anything deemed lift-up-able), nose adjustments, and liposuction on any part of the body do not get me started with lace-fronted weaves or extensions. The woman spends a great deal of time and money on products and services to achieve the ideology of beauty and remembers this perceived beauty is undefined. This means they end up chasing a mirage that disintegrates when they think they are now acceptable. This results in a cyclical pattern in women dabbling in metamorphosis, reinventing something else to feed that ever-growing pit in lost souls leading to other behavioral and emotional difficulties.

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If you look at The Beauty Myth’s objective, the power is monumental, and the devastation that this myth leaves behind is great news for those instigating this concept for nothing more than mind-control over women. This concept reminds me of the Lynch (Willie Lynch) method, which creates a divide-and-rule mask, in this case, in women.

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I am Marcia Hibbert-Roye, a a qualified Social Worker and Life Coach. I work as a Strategic Lead Develop for Women. My specialism is developing emotional awareness in females. I have devised a 6 Step Program that promotes good emotional health by accessing information from the subconscious to the conscious mind. The result is having more control over thoughts, feelings, and behavior.

Visit the website for great motivational cards for females to support during difficult times or to say, ‘You’re worth it.’ We have cards designed for the younger female, especially as she navigates puberty.

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